Behaviors

Got this from Prof Muhaya and i put it here so that i would always remember and also can share with u guys ^_^


Behavior that increase self-esteem, enhance your self-confidence, and spur your motivation. You may recognize some of them as things you naturally do in your interactions with other people. But if you dont, I suggest you motivate yourself to take some of these important steps immediately.

First, greet others with a smile and look at them directly in the eye. A smile and direct eye contact convey confidence born of self-respect. In the same way, answer the phone pleasantly whether at work or at home, and when placing a call, give your name before asking to speak to the party you want reach. Leading with your name underscores that a person with self-respect is making the call.

Second, always show real appreciation for a gift or compliment. Dont downplay or sidestep expressions of affection or honor from others. The ability to accept or receive is a universal mark of an individual with solid self-esteem.

Third, dont brag. Its almost a paradox that genuine modesty is actually part of the capacity to gracefully receive compliments. People who brag about their own exploits or demand special attention are trying to build themselves up in the eyes of others-and thats because they dont perceive themselves as already worthy of respect.